“Verbal Defense Skills”Words, not fists, should be the adult weapons of choice when in conflict. The problem is what are the “right words”? What is the right collection of syllables to use in a professional environment when one is feeling slightly “bent out of shape”? That is the question that will be answered in this workshop. Skills Presented: (1) How to construct, in advance, the right verbal response to ten common “in-your-face” statements heard in the contemporary workplace, (2) How to use advanced skills in assertiveness to formulate responses to hostile people, (3) How to ask a question when confronted with an “I’m-pushing-your-hot-buttons” declarative statement, (4) How to win an argument by losing a position which was always negotiable and (5) How to use self-control to gain control of an emotionally explosive situation. |